Marni welcomes Choyo Wilson-Daniels into the Life Check Yourself studio to discuss what is holding women back from making more money. Choyo is a premier mindset coach who founded Loveshift Coaching for women who want to run their business on their terms. Choyo is a seasoned entrepreneur who teaches her truth from her past struggles as a business owner.
Key takeaways from this episode:
The biggest thing holding women back from not making more money is their belief that they are not enough, they are too old, they need to lose weight, or any other belief that they are not enough. Choyo says many women don’t make decisions until they feel the conditions are just right but then use excuses of why the time isn’t right.
Sometimes the smarter we are, the gap gets wider between what we want and what we actually have in our lives. A lot of women struggle with dreaming big and typically when children come into the picture many women let their dreams die.
So, where can women start when they feel their circumstances are keeping them stuck? Suspend your conditions. Turn off the programming and act like the roadblocks are not there.
Go to your imagination (the 4th dimension) and get a clear vision of who and where you want to be, and what you want to be doing. Choyo says to tap into your imagination and go there in your mind. Because once you see the beautiful picture of who you can become it creates emotions and when you feel good you act differently.
Money Blocks [9:04]
Money blocks are generational and develop by the time we are seven or eight years old, Choyo says. If you are an adult who has never re-evaluated their money beliefs you are operating from your parents money beliefs. It is critical to do an evaluation, because many family members were raised during the great depression. They probably have a scarcity mindset which has been passed on from generation to generation.
If we aren't careful we can pass a scarcity mindset on to our children as well.
Money beliefs, blocks, paradigms, whatever you want to call it came from your childhood environment.
How to Shift into Abundance [17:50]
The first thing is to become aware of the limiting money beliefs. Then, build a new belief. We have to reverse engineer the beliefs. We need to create a brand new model of what we do want. All of the intention should be focused on your new model.
Change our relationship with failure. We need to look at failure like we look at success, it is all necessary. De-emphasize failure. Thomas Edison failed 10k times - you have to be willing to fail and take risk again. Tuning into the signal.
Set a money goal and create an affirmation around it. Repeat the affirmation all day and get comfortable with it in your life.
See yourself as who you want to be to make it so.
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